I've never really thought about it until recently but the transition from being a family of three to a family of four is quite scary. When your expecting your first baby nothing as much really bothers you but after that your constantly thinking about when is the right time to have another baby? Will I love this baby as much as I love my first? How will she cope when the baby arrives? And so much more.
It doesn't seem to be as smooth sailing as the first time round yet you feel you can enjoy it more as you have experienced it before and whatever happens it won't surprise you. Transitioning from a family of three to a family of four creates a whole web of questions some that won't really have an answer but the moment that baby is in your arms you feel the same amount of love as you did for your first. It surprised me how well kels took to having Kai around and I felt we suited as a family of four. Together we are one, a whole, a family and our family is strong, loving and happy. Perhaps one day we will add to our family and have a whole new transition to go through but for now this is us - a family of four.
It doesn't seem to be as smooth sailing as the first time round yet you feel you can enjoy it more as you have experienced it before and whatever happens it won't surprise you. Transitioning from a family of three to a family of four creates a whole web of questions some that won't really have an answer but the moment that baby is in your arms you feel the same amount of love as you did for your first. It surprised me how well kels took to having Kai around and I felt we suited as a family of four. Together we are one, a whole, a family and our family is strong, loving and happy. Perhaps one day we will add to our family and have a whole new transition to go through but for now this is us - a family of four.







